The one pictured is a female and her palps are tucked under her in that image. The females have slender pedipalps/palps whereas the males have what are called palpal bulbs and are rounded on the end. This is where the males store their sperm and where the embolus(spider penis) is.
In subreddit r/spiders
In a post titled:
What are these guys that have set up an apartment complex in my basement? New Hampshire USA