I have never enjoyed living with partners I simply need my own space. So, I suggested he move here but live separately. Ill probably lose the relationship if I dont give in and let him move here and buy a house together Sounds like it is worth losing. I dont enjoy our sex life and he has a massive sex drive, we dont have the same sense of humor and he is extreme in his political views. Everything else is good. What is the everything else? You are sexually and politically incompatible. You don’t find the same things funny. Let me break up with you if he isn’t into separate residences in the same area. Free up the both of you to find someone compatible.