Few people can do math in their head. Few people need math at their jobs. I’m a computer programmer and I do not. At least going by your post, your writing is better than most people’s on Reddit. You are smart enough to use ChatGPT to fix your emails. The average U.S. salary for 2024 was $62K/year Nothing will help you with women if you do not have a modicum of self confidence. Maybe you can find a learning disability therapist who can test you for an actual learning disability or lack of intelligence. The pay off is that such a person might be able to point you to training that can help you make the most of what you have.