I remember your original thread. Ask anyone who had a very bad marriage, followed by a very bad divorce. It is better to be alone than married to the wrong person. Your mother is being a bit selfish. She wants grandchildren and doesn’t care if you have to have a bad marriage to give them to her. In a way, it is a bit of a role reversal. Now she is the child crying to the adult to get the “toy”/thing she wants. Be kind, be polite, and be blunt. When she brings it up remind her that you talked about it with her and you don’t want to talk about it again. End the conversation if she will not let it go.