For me (51) in my dating days it was always about proportion. Tall, thick, tiny, busty, skinny, booty, flat, curvyif she was proportional, Id be attracted. If she wasnt strictly proportional (thighs but no chest or vice versa) then symmetry took over; well built straight down the middle line is always attractive. As was laughing at my dumb jokes ‍️ My advice? Rock the bod ya got, and if hes interesting/worth it enough, compliment him. Hell remember you forever.