r/dating:

u/zengeezer

You did fuck up. It sounds like she was having some trouble getting there on time, but she made a great effort. It’s a red flag for women when they see a guy who is impatient.
u/zengeezer

I’ve heard about this. The woman I’m seeing now has told me – I’m the first guy she’s known who cares. Based on that information, I would say that most women choose men who don’t care about their sexual needs. Women like men who are “masculine” and “forceful”. So if you want a different kind of man, choose a different kind of man.
u/zengeezer

Don’t flirt at work!
u/zengeezer

I used to be married and there were a number of things that caused that relationship to deteriorate. She thought I would learn to enjoy being ruled like a slave. I didn’t. She thought I would learn to live without sex. I didn’t. And after years, she decided to quit. And that was fine with me.
u/zengeezer

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u/zengeezer

This has happened to me when my sexual interest was rejected by a woman over a long period of time. I would be spending time with her, sitting there with a hard-on, but no opportunity to use it. Eventually the erections go away. It’s called Conditioning.