r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

Dude, I don’t worship money. I’m trying to get by with inflated prices made worse by tariffs and I save hard to make sure I can take care of myself when I have to retire.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/1wtf2brb I believe this comment was meant for you and not me.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/LumpyAbbreviations24 What are your advices to cope in a healthy way or to atleast stop thinking about it? Stop hanging out in /r/MensRights and similar groups. It will just make you an angry and resentful person which will only make your problems worse. I’ve seen a lot of posts like yours on Reddit. Nine times out of 10 I end up seeing a picture of an ordinary person, sometimes even a good looking person, but the emotions of insecurity on their face. Find someone who will tell you the truth about your appearance. Consider therapy for learning how to deal with it. If you have an actual deformity consider working and saving up for plastic surgery.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Being honest – web surf, doom scroll, or whatever the contemporary slang is for pissing away time on social media ( reddit, mastodon, etc ). I then move on to other things for hobbies/relaxing, but that is the first thing after work is over.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

What are is your advices advice to cope in a healthy way or to atleast stop thinking about it? “Advice doesn’t have a different form for more than 1 piece of advice.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Please let us know what you end up doing and how it turns out.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Who else would go to the trouble to log into the Internet and write a complaint about their relatives?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Ask her why you aren’t included on the bracelet This.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

That is why I wrote a well chosen, spouse. It is the only you get more and better relatives ( again, well chosen ). I had 1 coworker who complained he had nobody to talk to, or vent to. He had friends, but they had jobs and families to take care of. They were already stressed with their own burdens. They would listen to him for a little bit, but not for long. Their capacities were limited. I had another coworker, same job, who had a solid marriage. He said he would go home and “off load” to his wife. He did the same for her. His emotional health was much better, IMHO, having someone who cared about him who would listen to him. His family, was her family, they had bonds. With her he wasn’t getting on the phone to try to talk to a friend who was already dealing with the demands of his own family and his own job. I imagine his wife wasn’t always in the mood, but she would make time for him to talk to her.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Did you talk to her about it? It would bother me.