r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

Your writing is better than most people’s on Reddit. Perhaps you are smart enough to change, but you are overwhelmed by looking at your entire life at once. That and maybe you lack a little bit of life experience which you can most certainly gain by trying things out. Try picking one thing at a time, getting something going ( not necessarily done ), and move on from there. I know a lot of people who found their spouses and friends in running clubs. You ran a marathon. Maybe you could join one of those? Maybe you can start doing the volunteer work to become a cop? Maybe you can find a similar job to what you have, but in another company. It might change things up for a while to make things feel less stale.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Talking to an S.O. about a serious issue and the polite, well done talk not resulting in change is a situation in which you think about ending the relationship. Do not go back to the FWB.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Are you a bot and if not, are you being financially compensated for creating this thread? Are you in the I.T. field?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

“Food Coma” means you put too much food and food that breaks down too quickly into your system at one time. Your body reacts by freaking out and then dumping a crap ton of insulin to get the glucose out of your blood. The lower blood sugars lead to a “food coma”
u/TheBodyPolitic1

The way you wrote your question makes it sound like you have an agenda. Did you up in a natural growth upbringing and suffered deleterious effects?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

This sounds familiar did you post this before? Regardless, it is way uncool to issue an ultimatum to your SO, especially 1 year after him telling you it was okay to not be Catholic. Nobody should be allowed to try to force their religion on another. You are doing the best thing for the happiness of the both of you. You will both be free to find someone that matches each of you. As a bonus, no divorce proceedings or kids are involved. Your mother is being selfish by trying to make you have children before you are ready. If you are so inclined please post an update.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

I remember your original thread. Ask anyone who had a very bad marriage, followed by a very bad divorce. It is better to be alone than married to the wrong person. Your mother is being a bit selfish. She wants grandchildren and doesn’t care if you have to have a bad marriage to give them to her. In a way, it is a bit of a role reversal. Now she is the child crying to the adult to get the “toy”/thing she wants. Be kind, be polite, and be blunt. When she brings it up remind her that you talked about it with her and you don’t want to talk about it again. End the conversation if she will not let it go.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

? I found this post on google? Are you a bot? Are you asking me or are you telling me? Why are you putting question marks on both sides of your sentence? Just because you couldn’t find that users doesn’t mean you have consent.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

I hope you stopped smoking. Happy Sunday.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Let me guess, you didn’t get /u/Ghenges consent in posting his content.