r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

No nastiness meant, but it seems like you want that to be the case. My intuition is that at least a few came from loving homes with minimally dysfunctional parents. I haven’t researched it though.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Why can’t you get that from your partner? Did you talk to him?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

but I mean it. Moderate parenting resulting in average people who are reasonably happy using therapy once in a while seems like the best way to go.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/Right_Substance4life made this post in 8 different subreddits.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_dose_makes_the_poison Getting too little is not evidence that getting too much is healthy.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

No advice, just came here to say this is a good topic. Excuse the downvotes, some bitter assholes come here.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Dosage makes the poison.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

I did try to move out briefly but I came back. … Also mid 20s Move out. If they ask you to do something you don’t want to do politely tell them you will not.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

and use the funds they have a high earners to pay for the best therapists.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

I’m sorry you find yourself in this situation. Do the things now that require bodily health. Do kind things for people. The memories and energy generated by such acts will be a big comfort to you.