r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

You give $100 tips to your hair stylist?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Your $200 backyard wedding is not something everyone can do, and it is a bit of an outlier. Good on you for getting that financial break. Sorry about the divorce.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Sure Jan.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Or actually DONT find a wife and be even happier finding your own joy. Save money by not having a wedding and by not having a divorce.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Few people can do math in their head. Few people need math at their jobs. I’m a computer programmer and I do not. At least going by your post, your writing is better than most people’s on Reddit. You are smart enough to use ChatGPT to fix your emails. The average U.S. salary for 2024 was $62K/year Nothing will help you with women if you do not have a modicum of self confidence. Maybe you can find a learning disability therapist who can test you for an actual learning disability or lack of intelligence. The pay off is that such a person might be able to point you to training that can help you make the most of what you have.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

That only works if you are first born rich.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

I’m the OP. In my case the guy couldn’t come out to me personally claiming he was at work. He wanted to pay me via app and have his son pick it up for him. His son had no access to funds. People in the thread have mentioned that these apps are like credit cards in that they can put stop payments on money sent and even pull the payment back.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

This is basically outdated these days. I’ve read good things about the SMS protocol, but I have seen plenty of headlines about apps harvesting information off of phones and from other installed apps.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Or that could reinforce our negative and possibly incorrect views.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

They’re likely more secure than the website I see articles all of the time about apps harvesting information off of phones and other installed apps.