r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

But now I’m starting to feel bad for mocking my grandmother… If you have nasty beliefs about older people one day ( if you are lucky ) those will be beliefs that you have about yourself. Those nasty beliefs will make your life miserable. They aren’t quick or easy to get rid of. Sort of like getting a large deeply rooted tree stump out of the ground. This is the destiny of all the nasty haters on Reddit.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Sounds like you already found what to do. Checking up on her, being a person to ask how she is doing, etc
u/TheBodyPolitic1

You talk to them like they are adults, with the same level of respect AND boundaries, even if you are their parent and they are inclined not to listen to you. If they don’t listen it is their mistake to make. Curious to how many approach their children after turning 18 That is a phrase that will not be misunderstood. Do what trump should have done and stay away from Epstein. 🙂
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Invite the neighbors on every side of you ( including ceiling and floor ) to the parties. Be aware of your noise levels. Once you are friends with some of your neighbors ask them if you can test your stereo settings to see how much your stereo can be heard in their place. If you or your guests smoke anything learn how much smoke from your place makes it to their place. Learn if they can hear your footsteps. Put down rugs and mats to blunt the noise and vibrations.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

But I think you are being too negative towards the father without seeing the Will. People who are being honest don’t hide things. The FIL has evaded showing the family the will for 10 years.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Yes, please post back with an update! 🙂
u/TheBodyPolitic1

What? 🙂
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Thanks for the downvote. I was just about to go to the trouble of logging out to see if one of the automatic filters got to this thread or not and you saved me the trouble! 🙂
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Tell me you are an A.I. developer without telling me you are an A.I. developer. 🙂
u/TheBodyPolitic1

It is a shame you can’t remember being there. 🙂