r/RedditForGrownups:

u/TheBodyPolitic1

That wasn’t helpful.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/hotbugz I’m sorry about your career and your relationship. Your pain and stress about each will abate over time. Different problems will challenge you at different stages in life. If you are observant and keep growing you will also find new pleasures. Many people envy those who are 21. Take advantage of the opportunities life has for your stage of life.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/h3rald_hermes Fuxk you Who says republican voters can’t spell? /s
u/TheBodyPolitic1

… and powerful.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Makes sense. He only goes to work, so that is where you met him. Thank you for satisfying my curiosity.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

What bothers me is all of these bastshit crazy are being normalized as worth discussing. You have a point, but the secretary of defense is a follower of his.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/vicariously_eye if you think so much of him why aren’t you two together? If you don’t have enough shared interests to get together how did you become friends?
u/TheBodyPolitic1

Because they have a chance and are working to bring their twisted policies into existence.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

You have some great advice in this thread for how to separate yourself from her financially. Consider doing that first. Good luck.
u/TheBodyPolitic1

/u/Creative_Carrot_7514 You have a right to feel a lot of pain and resentment. From my vantage point you just became super lucky and fortunate. I’ve met adults who grew up with hoarders. You avoided many problems by NOT having children with your wife. A person who was like a major tumor on your life up and left. You are free. I would like to suggest therapy to help you through your grief and eventually to end up with a better person.