r/relationship_advice:

u/zengeezer

Maybe you can find someone else to give her affection.
u/zengeezer

It may have been a bad joke. She might be thinking about ways to put your kid to sleep so that the two of you can get busy.
u/zengeezer

She seems determined to get you into an open relationship. Maybe she secretly wants to be involved with you.
u/zengeezer

The only way I can think of is to tell him directly and plainly. “This is important to me”. In a relationship, each person has to agree to accept some things from the other person that don’t seem to make any sense. Their taste in music. Their taste in food. Having dinner once a week with their parents.
u/zengeezer

Oh, that guy is too immature to be in a relationship. Dump him.
u/zengeezer

It’s wrong to have sex with a person who’s unconscious. That being said, maybe your BF doesn’t know that. You are, after all, very young. Tell him it’s not OK. It’s up to him to change his behavior.
u/zengeezer

You should never get serious about anyone with an active addition.
u/zengeezer

You’re in love! Go with it! Go for broke. It may not happen more than once in one lifetime.
u/zengeezer

Well, your girlfriend is only technically an adult. She’s behaving like a child. She has probably met someone else and this is just an excuse.
u/zengeezer

She obviously has an interest in your husband, you aren’t sure just what shape that interest takes. She may feel that she needs a man she can communicate openly with. She might not have any other man in her life that she can do that with. Apparently not her husband. But it does seem a little strange. What does your husband have to say about this?