Ask her when the world HASNT been in chaos. Have her download an earthquake tracker app. Shell see that those things happen, large and small, all the time. It has nothing to do with Armageddon, but rather earths plates shifting. Send her information about how CT Russell was a con man when he started the Witnesses. It was all a publication grift. He was cheating on his spouse. Show her information about the home some of the higher ups in the Witnesses had bought in San Diego, in the early 1900s. Watch how she either doesnt want to talk about that, or just shuts down the conversation immediately. I know its hard, because you love her, but sometimes things have to hurt to get better. If they dont, wellhope that one day she comes around.