Can we find more peace in life, even if it means we cant say we have a real family? Are our true families actually our friends? Yes. No. Friends can be like family, but it doesn’t always happen. Friends might not be there for you when they have their own lives to take care of. Make no mistake, it is still better than being around relatives who are not a good match for you. Maybe your best bet is to have a well chosen spouse and some solid friendships you work at preserving.