Do you know how to have fun? Are you good with talking to people? Go to a truck yard type bar, grab some food and ease into trying to strike up conversation. Get a dating app and go on a date. Its not that hard if youre decent looking and in shape. Speaking of shape, go out and do a half marathon. Every time I do one I meet a few people when Im feeling social. Moral of the story is that you have to go out and do stuff.