I know a couple of women with herpes, and it’s a significant burden for them. I wouldn’t want to be burdened with the task of revealing something like that to a prospective partner.
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I was dating a woman who had herpes and did not tell me until the third date. was I wrong and getting upset because I was deceived or thank my lucky stars I wasnt infected. Just a little thing that I shouldnt be bothered with.