/u/LumpyAbbreviations24 What are your advices to cope in a healthy way or to atleast stop thinking about it? Stop hanging out in /r/MensRights and similar groups. It will just make you an angry and resentful person which will only make your problems worse. I’ve seen a lot of posts like yours on Reddit. Nine times out of 10 I end up seeing a picture of an ordinary person, sometimes even a good looking person, but the emotions of insecurity on their face. Find someone who will tell you the truth about your appearance. Consider therapy for learning how to deal with it. If you have an actual deformity consider working and saving up for plastic surgery.