Where have I come off as not seeing other people’s view? If I came off that way, it wasn’t intentional. But I’m being dog piled, told to be quite, and told I’m wrong. By every one. Including you, it’s hard to keep a level head and be perfectly reasonable when you’re being attacked from all sides (OK, to be fair, two people didn’t come here with the express reason of telling me how wrong I am for this to give me the ick). And that’s it. I’ve said it was odd. It objectively is, by definition. I can understand that most people aren’t going to go into the sexual thing. That’s why when I further explained it, I even took cuddling out. Seems like most people are just upset because I’m a “downer” or “that guy”, not because what I said is true or not. Edit: I hope you have read this already, and you see this as well. I know the words groomer, pedophile, and rapist are thrown around too much. That’s why I didn’t t use them. I don’t think this lady is any of those. At all. It is even kind of cute. Especially the fuzzy socks. I just said I found it odd. And explained why I find it odd. I don’t want anything to happen to her, I don’t think anything should happen to her. I don’t think it is or should be illegal sleep next to your kids. I just find the context of this, as I keep saying; odd.