r/AskMenAdvice:

u/currentlygooninglul

Is it temporary, long term, or for the rest of your life? I would be considering leaving if I were him but thats just me. At 30, I would dread committing to a life of masturbation so young and later on he will regret it unless his libido is non existent as well.
u/currentlygooninglul

Bro it amazes me how many people will, for example, make plans for a date and cancel multiple times then wonder why x person ghosts them and then conclude theres no hope dating.
u/currentlygooninglul

Yea, it was an issue when I was younger and believed I could fix things but the other persons toxicity will rub off on you until you leave. As soon as you recognize they aren’t able to help their bad behavior, dip.
u/currentlygooninglul

Bro, Im gonna be real, based on your post history, the bi dudes are probably just gay and you might come off as too much of a lesbian to the straight dudes. Are you more tomboyish? Id be willing to bet if you are, theres some feminine quality that fails to shine through.
u/currentlygooninglul

Bro, youre 20 and over thinking it. Dont trauma dump and youll be fine. Learn to sus out dudes with bad intentions.
u/currentlygooninglul

99% of the comments dont know what the fuck they are talking about. 2 beers a day is nothing. Its not until you cannot go a day without alcohol or alcohol gets in the way of your life, that youve got an issue. For me, if I got out (once a month or less), Ill usually have 2-3 pints. On my rest day of no gym or work, I can work through up to 10 pints. So, technically, I average 0-2 pints a day in a 7-day period.
u/currentlygooninglul

Women date multiple people more often and it makes sense unless theyre screwing every date. Men that date multiple women arent worth it. A man worth his salt does not have the time to court multiple women and knows after a date or two if he wants to continue further.
u/currentlygooninglul

So youve seen a cheater stop?
u/currentlygooninglul

Yes. People saying no are cheaters. In 30 years Ive yet to see a cheater of either sex stop.
u/currentlygooninglul

You told him you only wanted to be friends and hes respecting it. You also say you have feelings for him so idk why youd express a sole interest in being platonic when you clearly want more. Sounds like hes a decent dude and youre somehow confused by the outcome of your previous actions.