r/dating:

u/zengeezer

Strong women can be a great discovery for some men, once we encounter one. I got hooked early – in my 20s.
u/zengeezer

I can’t understand why any guy would describe you as aggressive or too much merely for initiating a contact. It’s possible that you’re dealing with young men with fragile egos. I would love to have a woman initiate something with me.
u/zengeezer

I don’t know why they say that. I’m in therapy, and they treat that as a red flag.
u/zengeezer

It’s hard to know what women want. They don’t even know what they want until they see what they have.
u/zengeezer

I understand. At first thought I was really pissed off at the guy, but I wanted to consider other reasons before I let myself really hate him.
u/zengeezer

Ok, I’ll go with you on that. But it’s their choice. If they don’t choose the high road the traditional road will still be available to them.
u/zengeezer

Maybe something actually did come up. Life happens.
u/zengeezer

This might be what I’m doing wrong. I never approach women for sex, and the only women that will talk to me are unattractive women. I’ve considered using unattractive women for sex, but I don’t know how to initiate that kind of relationship.
u/zengeezer

Thank you for the warning. I haven’t tried Hinge, and now I won’t.
u/zengeezer

It took months?