r/dating:

u/zengeezer

Holy shit! I’m surprised it took you an hour to cut him loose!
u/zengeezer

Interesting perspectives. In order to survive the dating culture, we must reckon with the reality of competition.
u/zengeezer

But, will you like the one who likes you?
u/zengeezer

You are 100% correct. Women want to be equal in everything where they benefit, but they seem to think men are born to do all the hard work. As time goes on, there are more and more risks for men who approach women. I have personally been subjected to public humiliation on social media for merely expressing my interest in a female. And that is only one example.
u/zengeezer

That might sound official, but if you want it to really be official I suggest that you tell him you want to have an exclusive relationship with him. And, get him to agree to that. Then you will be official.
u/zengeezer

Why would a man show love to a woman he doesn’t even know? Let us get to know the woman a little bit before we decide she deserves to be treated like royalty.
u/zengeezer

That’s a very common problem. The fact is, most women ignore men or treat us as non-persons. So, when a woman treats us nicely it’s easy to misunderstand.
u/zengeezer

I would be offended by that. It seems like your racial makeup means more to him than you as a person.
u/zengeezer

Keep up the good work. You are still young.
u/zengeezer

I assume a lot of them are scammers, and I look for it. Sometimes I just play with them like a cat plays with a mouse. Right up to the point where they ask for money.