r/dating:

u/zengeezer

Small breasts are the best! You don’t have to tell him about your breasts. If you get naked with him he will find out, and he might love them! Even if he doesn’t love them right away, he may grow to love them.
u/zengeezer

When you’re really attracted to someone, sometimes you just run out of things to say. It has happened to me. Don’t be afraid to take the conversation in a new direction. Maybe mention an event that’s coming up and say why you like that kind of event. Maybe mention something he’s said and ask him about it – you show interest that way and give him a chance to talk about himself. Don’t bring up negative things. If you end up seeing each other there will be plenty of time for that.
u/zengeezer

Are you dating or are you in a relationship? Either way, your man seems to be intent on emotional abuse. Maybe he’s not a perfect mate for you.
u/zengeezer

Apparently she just wasn’t sexually attracted to you anymore. And it’s normal for people to want sex. Apparently you weren’t delivering.
u/zengeezer

It sounds like your dating experience is way better than mine.
u/zengeezer

Big boobs just get in the way. I’m surprised that you were having sex with a guy before you found out he didn’t like your boobs. Before I can have sex with a woman I have to do paperwork, give her a key to my house, and buy her expensive gifts. And so far, even that stuff doesn’t work.
u/zengeezer

A relationship is a living thing. If you find somebody you want to be with you have to keep breathing life into that relationship. Or it will die.
u/zengeezer

I understand what this guy is saying, but he’s very immature. Where he says “you need to speak our language” he’s describing a factor that’s present in every negotiation. But the idea of sending nudes is ridiculous. That would only connect with men like him, and I don’t think you want that kind of guy. I’m not that kind of guy, and I don’t even know any of those kinds of guys.
u/zengeezer

Dating means different things to different people. For some people it implies sex,for others its just a social activity. I’m 70 years old, and I still dating. Although, women my age don’t remember sex.
u/zengeezer

I don’t know about most guys, but ANYTHING you do will be just fine. Especially if you are inexperienced – there’s nothing more endearing than an inexperienced woman who is sincerely trying something new.