r/dating:

u/zengeezer

Good rule!
u/zengeezer

Women flirt?
u/zengeezer

When she started treating you badly, that’s when she wanted you to go away. She didn’t have the guts to tell you she was having sex with your friend. It’s rare to catch people “in the act”, and you did. You need to be done with her.
u/zengeezer

“he got a girlfriend” – did he already have a girlfriend while he was dating you?
u/zengeezer

It sounds like you are doing very well. Don’t worry about this one woman, she probably wasn’t real anyway.
u/zengeezer

I have no flirting skills. My hit-or-miss move is inviting them on a hike. It’s surprising to discover how many women don’t like to hike. But that weeds out the couch potatoes.
u/zengeezer

At least you have something. I haven’t had sex in over 20 years and I’m not bad looking, I’m just old.
u/zengeezer

There are many kinds of sex work. Most kinds don’t involve having sex with people for money. Is she a cam-girl? An escort? Or what? Knowing more about the work she does might make the situation easier for you.
u/zengeezer

I have dated a woman with kids and I would do it again. Three daughters. No problem.
u/zengeezer

There is no requirement that you talk dirty during sex. Maybe you should ask your partners why they need to do it.