r/dating:

u/zengeezer

I prefer a flat butt over a bubble butt.
u/zengeezer

Oh, I’ve understood that for a long time. And if a woman is nice to me in another situation she wants something from me – I don’t fall for that either.
u/zengeezer

I’m male, and what makes a woman unattractive to me is: obesity.
u/zengeezer

Because I can’t remember ever receiving a sincere compliment. Not in the last 20 years or so. I listened to messages from young women all the time sending me pictures and fake compliments.
u/zengeezer

Based on yourself description, you don’t need any help. But I’ll follow this thread looking for the responses of women.
u/zengeezer

I have to admit it: a compliment from a woman would be so rare that I would suspect it was fake.
u/zengeezer

Back when you were unreachable he may have felt some frustration about you. Don’t blame him for nicknames he had for you before you were dating.
u/zengeezer

That was a good idea for the first 10 years. It got kind of boring through the second 10 years. I’m in the third decade of being single and I just want to touch somebody.
u/zengeezer

Compliments? Women have sometimes said positive things about me but they aren’t compliments. I’ve been told I’m compassionate and caring, but women aren’t attracted to those characteristics.
u/zengeezer

He will keep speaking to women that way until one of them returns the kind of picture he wants. It’s sad, because it contaminates all the women that don’t respond to him.