r/dating:

u/zengeezer

You made a small tactical error. Your girlfriend is apparently overly sensitive to this issue. There’s probably something in her past that explains it.
u/zengeezer

I agree with you. I skip right past those women. I have to question why those women are even looking for men.
u/zengeezer

That statement does sound a bit casual – like what someone would say after a job interview. But, as I understand it, young people are having sex with everybody these days.
u/zengeezer

You’ve already done everything right. Just repeat until you meet a guy with whom you share a mutual spark.
u/zengeezer

What size was it?
u/zengeezer

It does look desperate. You’ll understand when it happens to you.
u/zengeezer

You should tell her you are interested in her. She might be waiting to hear it.
u/zengeezer

1 don’t be obese 2 have a smile
u/zengeezer

Two answers: yes and no Yes: if you want a girlfriend who puts a lot of time, effort, and expense into her appearance and her lifestyle. The kind of girlfriend that impresses your friends. No: if you just want a female companion. She might not impress you with a hot exterior, and she might need you to motivate her. Start by lowering your standards. When women lower their standards they call it “giving him a chance”.
u/zengeezer

Just a couple of observations based purely on what you wrote. You might be rushing things with these guys. You may not think you’re rushing, but your vibe may give you away. You may have a natural pace that’s faster than other people. And just a wild guess: are you bringing something to the situation in terms of interest or excitement? Is there something about you that might make a guy lose interest in chasing other women? Whatever it is that makes you special, you need to find a guy who wants that.