r/dating:

u/zengeezer

You didn’t mention weight, muscularity, intelligence, income, or any personality traits. You may still have a type that you don’t know about.
u/zengeezer

Have the abortion. Start using birth control! Stop having sex with guys you just met within the last month.
u/zengeezer

It’s only an addiction if it causes a problem for you. It sounds like your only problem is that your GF doesn’t like it and thinks it’s dirty.
u/zengeezer

I can’t believe the new kinds of bullshit these guys come up with every day. And women keep falling for it!
u/zengeezer

Try lowering your standards.
u/zengeezer

Maybe the sex just wasn’t good enough? Maybe her ex-boyfriend is in the picture. Maybe she didn’t like some of the answers you gave to her questions. Maybe she’s dating several guys and you just dropped off the bottom of the list.
u/zengeezer

You must be joining the wrong groups. Join a yoga class. Join a spinning class. Volunteer for the Kamala Harris campaign.
u/zengeezer

He sounds inexperienced. Don’t allow that if you don’t like it.
u/zengeezer

I had a very similar situation about 30 years ago. I had just started seeing this woman and the condom broke. She decided to terminate the pregnancy. It was really not up to me. At the time I agreed with her. It would have been too much pressure on a relationship that was just beginning. It was a difficult situation, just like yours. Many years later I have some regrets about it, but still feel the right decision was made at the time.
u/zengeezer

It’s normal for young women to have nude photos of themselves on their phones, to shave their pubic hair, and engage in oral sex. But if your GF has recently been meeting up with her ex, and if there have been lies in the past, you should re-think your marriage plans.