r/AITAH:

u/JC_Everyman

Kind of the asshole. Yelling at kids isn’t the example you want to set. You can get the outcome you want with more thought and less reaction.
u/JC_Everyman

Yeah, fuck that guy. Not like that!
u/whydoIhurtmore

No. Not at all. You also wouldn’t have been an asshole if you were both American.
u/whydoIhurtmore

Asshole? No, it’s your body. But he is allowed preferences. It doesn’t sound like there is an asshole in this situation. You two may not be compatible.
u/whydoIhurtmore

NTA. She’s a bully. If your family won’t support you over a bully, what good are they? This sounds like school. Teachers won’t do anything to stop a bully but will be all over someone who defends themselves.
u/whydoIhurtmore

NTA. I was a single dad for years. I worked full-time and took care of three children every day. She has one toddler and no job. Is your child severely disabled? If not, she has nothing to complain about. She wants to be seen as a hardworking mother who makes a huge sacrifice and not as a pampered stay at home mom who has an easy life. Her problem is that she is a pampered stay at home mom with an easy life. You two are in a dangerous position. Your wife is spoiled and immature.
u/Seven7greens

Alaskan here. Come back to your real home.
u/zengeezer

It seems a bit extreme for you to divorce him for merely making a suggestion.
u/zengeezer

Then she is not the right one for him. My experience is that every woman is capable of cheating.
u/zengeezer

And if you change your mind you should advise the person you made the commitment to that you have changed your mind.