r/Bumble:

u/zengeezer

Trim up that beard, especially the neck. Based on your pictures, you may find a woman who’s interested in you, but probably not on bumble. Start hanging around a local alternative nightclub.
u/zengeezer

We men in our ’70s actually do look for women in our age range, but women in their ’70s have mostly put sex in the rearview mirror. So, we are looking for women who still see sex in their future.
u/zengeezer

I have some insight into the phenomenon. Both men and women tend to show pictures of things they believe to be accomplishments. Women show pictures of babies – which baffle us as much as our pictures of fish baffle them. I think these pictures really are descriptive. If a guy posts pictures of fish he’s going to spend time away from you fishing. If a woman posts pictures of babies they’re going to be spending time with their grandchildren and not having fun with us.
u/zengeezer

Maybe he’s allergic to cats?
u/zengeezer

Ha ha ha ha ha ha
u/zengeezer

You might find some guesses in the Urban dictionary: https://www.urbandictionary.com/
u/zengeezer

There are groups of scammers who do nothing else but congregate data from multiple sources. They’re looking to confirm connections among data items. Among people. And common characteristics. And creating a false sense of trust so they can collect personal information.
u/zengeezer

Yeah, why do they use pictures of groups of women? You don’t know which of those women is the profile owner. When they intentionally obscure their photos it’s a red flag for me.
u/zengeezer

Most of us men don’t dare ask women questions about themselves. When we do, women feel their privacy is being invaded. Women want to remain secret. If you are one of the very few women who aren’t offended by questions then you should recognize the environment that most women are creating for you.
u/zengeezer

Insisting on picking you up is a big red flag. No guy should interfere with your independence, especially on a first meeting.